Thursday, January 1, 2009

Resolute on resolutions

I don’t make New Year’s resolutions for the same reason I don’t take seriously weather forecasts or annual job performance plans. (Sorry, boss. My proudest work moments of 2008 involved projects we weren’t dreaming of in January.) Fact is it’s impossible to know what will happen tomorrow, much less six months from now. Rather than worry about the next 12 months, I prefer to be thankful for the past 12. Things like:
  • Fold-in driver’s side mirrors on our Irish rental car
  • Orange biscuits at the Hallmark Café (and Crown Room pancakes)
  • Chrissie and Tom at The Olde Bakery B&B in Kinsale, Ireland. Finer proprietors you will not find.
  • The opportunity to run on untouched snow-covered roads.
  • All seven Bruce Springsteen concerts. But especially the second night in Dublin when he came within a few feet of Rachel. (Her look was priceless.) And the Houston show with Father Tom. And meeting Dave and “Tree” in St. Paul. And the KC show with my dad.
  • Watching Avery and Gwyneth needle each other the same way Candice and I did at their ages. And knowing what the girls don’t…that they may spend the next few years wishing for their own rooms or their own toys or whatever else, but in each other they have a best friend for life.
  • The lunch-time running crew at Hallmark
  • That my brother found someone who will endure him for the next 60 or so years.
  • Facebook. (I never thought I’d say that. But it’s been very cool to reconnect with old friends and classmates.)
And the basics, which didn’t seem so basic in 2008. Health, employment, family, friends, faith and a wife who endures me. Seems like the sky is falling anytime we open a newspaper or turn on the television. And I’m sure it feels like the sky IS falling for many people. Jobs lost, retirement funds depleted. But I do think everyone can find something to be thankful for. If not, perhaps a resolution is in order…

1 comment:

  1. Hey, welcome to the world of sharing your thoughts with the faceless masses -- or a stray person or two -- in the blogosphere! Truly, whether anyone reads it or not, I find it useful to just take the time to put a few thoughts in writing, if for no other reason than to clarify them in my own mind. I hope you find the same benefit.

    At any rate, I love your reflections on the year just concluded and I will add this to my list of sites to keep up with on my "blog dashboard" or whatever it's called.

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